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Edited by TheyCallMeHodor: 10/22/2014 1:06:21 PM
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Im too old for this shit?

Im 29 turning 30 in Feb and I feel like im too old to be playing, I have a wife and 2 kids in which I spend quality time with and work 6-7 days a week usually. I play Destiny whenever I find the time to do so but lately I keep getting invited to do VOG (I still havent done it yet) and the other 5 fire team peeps are like screaming 12-13 year olds and that is also the reason I refuse to use a mic. Tbh, I feel embarrassed because these people are young and being the only adult just makes me feel uneasy, like if I used a mic and spoke they will probably give me shit about my age and some of the people wont let me come do VOG unless I use a mic anyways. It was like when I played mw2 when it came out and the lobbies filled up with screaming trash talking kids and it spread like a cancer so I quit and haven't touched a CoD game since lol. I bought the game to enjoy it,not to listen to kids yell at each other going on about being molested by their dad or gay this and gay that. I just dont know what to do? I think I might just stay at level 29, any other adults here that feel like they can somewhat relate to this? [EDIT] So much positive feedback, I was not expecting so many replies and you can believe me when I write that I have read every single comment in this thread and it warms the heart knowing just how many others are just like me. Thank you so much everybody. Oh and I noticed a few people asking what console im on, im on the PS4 and I will be sure to check out the mature clans out there that were suggested.
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  • It's definitely very discouraging to continue grouping up with random players when you have bad experiences like that; I can relate to your CoD reference, as it is one of the main reasons why I don't play it anymore. But, don't give up hope! Maybe, find a good clan to play with, so you don't have to pick up randoms all the time? We're fortunate that enough people play this game, that we should be able to find mature players. I've grouped with younger players who were able to conduct themselves maturely, and I've grouped with some folks in their 20's who were so irritating that I had to leave the mission. The key is to just keep the experience enjoyable: if somebody else is ruining it for you, remove them from your game experience. I definitely recommend checking out "Dads of Destiny." Not only will that bring some mature players to group with, but will also bring players with similar lifestyles as you! Good luck with everything, and feel free to send an invite if you need some help with group content!

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