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Edited by Broseph Stalin: 9/18/2014 3:26:36 AM
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I have a serious problem.

I really need a little advice here, and yes, it involves a grill. So I've been friends with this girl since my freshman year of high school and we've gotten closer and closer over the years. Back in May, she admitted to me how strong her feelings for me were, and it completely took me by surprise. I knew she liked me a lot, but I never realized that she was actually in love with me. My attitude toward her started to change too over the summer, and I had plenty of time to think about her since we never saw each other once and I was forced to stop playing football due to concussion issues. Once school started, it was just great. We spent more time together (it helps having about half my classes with her) and we were happy. Problem is, she was having problems with her boyfriend, and it probably stemmed from her feelings toward me. Her boyfriend noticed that we were hanging out a lot, and she got into a fight with him. We were talking that same day, and I made a joke that normally she would have laughed at, but this time she took it the wrong way and we got into a fight. The next day, though, we talked over everything and I made a big mistake. I told her I loved her back. The mistake wasn't in saying it (or at least I don't think it was), it was the timing. She was already in a messy breakup and I gave her boyfriend a reason to dump her. Even though we got closer over the next few days (we got to the point that if we ever got time alone together, we'd just be making out and flirting), I knew something was wrong. About a week ago, she told me they broke up. I was there for her like I always was and I helped her through it. But even then, she started to push me away more and more. We talked less. We stopped hanging out. I can barely even talk to her anymore. I can't say anything without making her mad at me anymore. I don't know what to do. I love her. She's the only one I've ever really loved. I don't want to lose her, guys. What do I do?
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