Dunno what to do brahs. Broke up with this girl about a year back, but it ended with a lot of unresolved stuff. Still cared about her a ton but we didn't talk for months even though she tried to contact me a few times. I pretty much got over it, but recently she started messaging my friend and he's gonna try(most likely succeed) to -blam!- her. It would be selfish of me to tell him not to because she's not even mine right?? Even though I thought I was over her I feel mad & jealous as fuck, which is so selfish of me,right? She had a boyfriend or two since then and so have I, but I feel kinda betrayed. How do I get over this feeling?
Edited: 9/17/2013 3:58:12 AM PermalinkUnresolved issues.... If you didn't talk to her for months, sounds like things resolved themselves. Sorry to say, but she's free to make her own choice and so is your friend. You will just have to be a good friend and be happy for them if it works out. [quote]She had a boyfriend or two since then and so have I,[/quote] Um, ok. Sounds like everything worked out then, I guess. Time heals all wounds. One of the dumbest sayings ever, but it does hold some truth. It should say; Time makes you eventually forget certain parts of the events that happened so they become a bitter resentment or a warm memory. This all depends on how you handle things.