Serious question here guys. I don't have a girlfriend at the moment, so this isn't directly linked with my experience and I would like to make it clear I am not asking for advice. However I was having a chat with some of my friends and this question came up. It is a difficult question and there is no easy way of doing so. I suggested that you ask her is she thinks it is a good idea if you both start going to the gym together or something along those lines, rather than making it her issue, you make being healthy a goal you set as a couple. But how would you guys approach it? Have any of you been in this situation before? Opinions from women would be greatly appreciated.