I hate that its almost impossible to keep up with what women really want. One day its something and the next its something totally different. It seems like it changes on a daily bases. Im a very blunt honest person i dont sugar coat what i say maybe thats cause of the way i was raised or the military but i feel that if you ask me a question im gonna answer it truthfully. So i feel dont ask the question if you dont wanna hear the answer. Communication is important but some men and women now adays lack the ability to have a civil conversation. Needs change from day to day one day she might wanna cuddle and just watch tv the next she might wanna go out and be spontaneous. But Unless you tell your significant other what you want or how you feel or what makes you feel great then its not gonna work. No one can read minds even tho we wish we could.