It took me a long time to get to this point but I can safely say that I'm pro gay marriage. However, I also believe this topic is exhausted and it's going to eventually become social norm anyway. I understand the more conservative views (since I was conservative on this topic) but I don't think butting ourselves into others' lives is productive, nor is it worth anyone's time or effort. Believe what you want to believe, but don't force your opinions on others.