Some of you may know I recently asked a girl out, well I found out (I always assumed) she has a thing for my younger brother. Now this got me thinking, every girl I know and liked who knew 1 of my 2 brothers has always been interested in them and not me. For example, when I was 16 at my mates birthday party I hit it off with a girl and we kissed a few times but I found out she was dating somebody at the time. We stayed friends and talked and next thing I know she is trying to get with my younger bro and thinks my older bro is fit to. The kicker? She says I have to change in every way (Hair, body hell even my car apparently) before she even considers me. My brothers have both been able to get jobs and hold them while im struggling and they just seem to have everything easy while I have to work for everything I get, I feel like im just in their shadows and that im just.....there. Do you feel like your just some person people know and that your friend or sibling is better at everything than you?