Man tells me it's a woman... Gets home... Clothes off So ah that's a penis... So what? What are you planning on doing with it? Oh nothing I thought we could do some back doors stuff. Not into that -blam!- you misoginistic pig. No way in hell mrs doubtfire Ever gotten really drunk at a bar and mistook a cross dresser? If an it ever wanted a fully open and valuable relationship they would have to be honest and upfront about what they are and furthermore who they are. I was reading a fml once and a women had married an it and had discovered that it's penis did not in fact work. They later got divorced because she could not trust it. So should we at least have a label that makes it easier for its to be honest and upfront and letting people love them for who they are?