So I'm in the tower turning in my bounties before changing characters to go play some IB when I get a message from a random 29. All it says is "VOG hard?" Since I've already beaten the raid on hard on all three of my characters this week I replied with a simple "No".
Now I always get a little depressed when I see another message coming back after that response. Most of the time, the follow up is, "why not?", which is a really dumb question to ask. What are you going to do when I tell you that I've already done it? Change my mind? If someone declines a raid invite, suck it up and move on. The forums and destinylfg exist for a reason.
This particular 29 in his infinite wisdom sent back the following "i love u 30s u think your better but your not u were a 29 once". Don't assume what other people's motivations are. Don't antagonize or provoke someone you're asking to help you. And FFS people, please try to exercise a little civility both on the forums and in game. I promise you will get much better results.
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I've encountered this many times in multiple games. When it's not random friend invites it's random guild invites, I got spammed to hell and back with them in STO. I ended up joining a random one just to make it stop. Communication goes a long way. So long as you answer them they should know that you're not being stuck up, if you were stuck up you would have deleted the message and said nothing back. Common sense isn't something humanity has in spades.