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Edited by Broseph Stalin: 9/18/2014 3:26:36 AM
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I have a serious problem.

I really need a little advice here, and yes, it involves a grill. So I've been friends with this girl since my freshman year of high school and we've gotten closer and closer over the years. Back in May, she admitted to me how strong her feelings for me were, and it completely took me by surprise. I knew she liked me a lot, but I never realized that she was actually in love with me. My attitude toward her started to change too over the summer, and I had plenty of time to think about her since we never saw each other once and I was forced to stop playing football due to concussion issues. Once school started, it was just great. We spent more time together (it helps having about half my classes with her) and we were happy. Problem is, she was having problems with her boyfriend, and it probably stemmed from her feelings toward me. Her boyfriend noticed that we were hanging out a lot, and she got into a fight with him. We were talking that same day, and I made a joke that normally she would have laughed at, but this time she took it the wrong way and we got into a fight. The next day, though, we talked over everything and I made a big mistake. I told her I loved her back. The mistake wasn't in saying it (or at least I don't think it was), it was the timing. She was already in a messy breakup and I gave her boyfriend a reason to dump her. Even though we got closer over the next few days (we got to the point that if we ever got time alone together, we'd just be making out and flirting), I knew something was wrong. About a week ago, she told me they broke up. I was there for her like I always was and I helped her through it. But even then, she started to push me away more and more. We talked less. We stopped hanging out. I can barely even talk to her anymore. I can't say anything without making her mad at me anymore. I don't know what to do. I love her. She's the only one I've ever really loved. I don't want to lose her, guys. What do I do?
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  • Damn that's hard, if you really want to be with her gain her trust again, don't push her to do things she doesn't want to do after what happened, fixing mistakes takes a lot of courage and if you are willing to win her back whether as a friend or a girlfriend well it's time to move. If she broke up recently obviously it's going to be hard but be honest to her and tell her that you want to be friends again and from there on gain her trust, if she still have feelings for you then everything else is going to work out for the better.

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    • Yo bro, how about you stop stalin and just ask her out.

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    • Hold up. I do not see why she is mad at you. Also she had a boyfriend this whole time you guys did this? Even when you'd make out?

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    • You could always be gay But in all seriousness you fûçkèd up

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    • Edited by Batman: 9/18/2014 4:22:11 AM
      Love is a verb, it's not a feeling. The more this society continues to exist, the more ignorant it becomes to knowing how to deal and interact with one another. The sooner people realize what they're doing, the sooner people will get along with each other and know the difference between real feelings and artificial ones that are fabricated to explain ill decisions, but that will never happen because the selfishness, pride, ignorance, and stubbornness of man know no bounds.

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      • I'm so sorry cuz ur prolly srs but >it involves a grill

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        • Give her some time and space to think things through and collect herself. Still text her and talk to her about other things than your feelings for her or her break up. Just don't be overbearing when you talk to her or she might see it as a power play for her so take things slow.

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          • Commit suicide, she'll come running back.

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