You might remember me from my previous thread when I told my crush how I feel about her. Well I have an update. It took me way too long to realize something obvious. She's not even mature enough to politely decline me using words. I'm done waiting for a reply and if I get one, whatever. I got my answer even if you never said anything. So http://giphy.com/gifs/message-kh5kYTvlZtOE0
EDIT: link to original post
http://www.bungie.net/en/Forum/Post/85652810/0/0
I guess this gif applies to my situation
http://img.pandawhale.com/post-12466-I-don-t-know-what-I-expected-g-gIlY.gif
[b]EDIT 2[/b]: If I were to apologize for the awkward spot I put her in, how would I go about it? I realize it's a difficult topic. I should note I'm not falling for her again, I just feel bad and want to get this past us for both our sakes.
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Edited by Demigod: 12/22/2014 3:38:57 AMHow long until you shoot up your school OP? [spoiler]Sad day bro[/spoiler]
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The next step in your destiny has become clear to me. You must now rant on the internet about how girls only date jerks. [spoiler]In all seriousness, I'm sorry. That's really a bummer. [/spoiler]
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I can guarantee you that conveying your message of love towards the girl of your dreams over the internet will be a complete failure 9.99/10 times. Even if you are the last guy on earth, and she is madly in love with you, telling her over the Internet just doesn't work. I know it is difficult to prevent yourself from doing so because I'm sure you're head over heels for this chick, but you have to hold yourself back, and wait for the proper face-to-face moment.
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Dude hide ur feelings until your hanging out with her alone, then touch her but ;)
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I would never, she'd slap me, or kiss me i don't know. By the way my real names Luke but i sign it Thresh.~ Thresh
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GG, no Re.
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Edited by Tosevite 187: 12/21/2014 10:59:10 PMHere is the whole story from her perspective: One day she comes home from middle school and sees she has a fb friend request from the OP. She doesn't initially recognize him but after a few moments and skimming shared friends she remembers you from her math class last year. She accepts not really thinking much of it and moves on with her life. Weeks pass and she hears nothing from her new fb friend but she doesn't really remember she even added him. Then one day at school she is late for her test and doesn't have a pencil. She frantically scrambles through the hall looking for one and asks the only person around (OP). She doesn't recognize him from that friend request weeks ago. OP gives her his only pencil (such an honorable thing to do) and she thanks him and hurries into her test. Afterwords she doesn't remember who gave her the pencil as she was so frantic before. It's just a pencil so she decides just to keep it. Later that night she logs onto her Facebook and sees a long novel of messages from the OP confessing his love for her. It takes her a moment to realize this is the kid who gave her his pencil for her test. She's flattered and thinks you're a nice guy because of the pencil situation earlier that day but she's never spoken to you and still isn't totally sure who you are. Your messages reek of desperation and obsession and it creeps her out as much as it flatters her. She asks her friends what to do and is juggling her options as we speak. [spoiler]just my interpretation based off the little info available[/spoiler]
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I actually just got the girl I have a crush on.
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Obviously you're too good for her OP
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I'm not going to hate on you for trying, you experienced a strong emotion to someone and tried to show her it. I respect that
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Edited by ⛧Sinagos⛧: 12/21/2014 1:02:01 PMYour first mistake was not giving her a link to "Are you gonna be my grill" by Jet [spoiler]Respect for trying![/spoiler]
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Edited by The Fallen Zyzz: 12/21/2014 12:24:25 PMDon't worry, mate. Just play it off cool, don't give a shit. Keep on going on and you will eventually attract someone who is worth it. EDIT: Don't get all bitter about it. Part of life and being a man is being able to let that which truly does not matter slide.
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Saw this coming a mile away.
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It's fine because it will be holidays soon so everyone will probably forget anyways :) ♡
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She be an pussy fgt
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"friend-zoned" fools always think the girl doesn't know about their feelings for her. [b]Spoiler Alert[/b] [spoiler] [b]THEY DO[/b] [/spoiler] If they were interested in you, they would have either done something about it or hinted so strongly that it's undeniable. [quote] [b] 1. Make your intentions clear early on. 2. Actually ask the girl out on a date; not as friends, not with a group, and not "will you be my girlfriend?" (That's idiotic and a 12 year old thing to say [if 12, play COD and date when you're older.]) 3. If she doesn't return interest, move on. 4. If you absolutely must have a chick, get another girlfriend. Nothing makes panties drip like another bitch having something that could have been hers. [/b] [/quote]
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Edited by DeafFB0: 12/21/2014 4:41:46 AMAsked out this girl in 8th grade last December. She said... [spoiler]"No Sorry" she also said, "I want to focus on my grades".[/spoiler] [spoiler]I thought that was very understandable, until I found out that the excuse was BS. I was a little disappointed and thankful at the same time weirdly [/spoiler]
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Ya see why ppl said you dun goof'd?
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I used to bang this chick I had a crush on.
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OP you sound like a narcissistic bitch now, I mean -blam!- she's not obligated to respond back
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You put her in a very awkward position, m8.
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Told my crush how I felt once. She didn't even reply to me and just ignored me.
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I told my crush my feelings once. We went out and four months later i was left heartbroken by that lying, cheating, evil spawn of Satan. </3 Totally not worth it if you ask me. :(
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Yuuup.
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Dude, in fairness... I have not seen what you told her. For all I know, you came across as a creep. Additionally, if you're already gonna be all like "well, -blam!- her then", you probably didn't have genuine affection for her anyway. Use this not just as a learning opportunity on how to approach a girl, but to be a better person as well.
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Exactly man bitches like that aren't even worth your thoughts. Sometimes two people click and it's meant to be, sometimes it doesn't. I've gone after girls who lost interest, I've had girls after me I wasn't interested in, but I've always been with a few where there was instant chemistry between us and it just happens. If it doesn't, no sense in wasting time being sad about it. Life goes on and so do we.