Here's the story: I like this girl at my HS, and she has feelings for me. However, she has a bf that she [i]wants[/i] to leave because he's incredibly controlling and possessive. He doesn't know about me and her, but he's told her that of she ever broke up with her, he would kill himself. She's a caring person, and has had some serious problems in her past, which makes her less willing to leave him, and more willing to forgive him. I'm trying to tell her that he's a total jerk [i]without[/i] sounding like one myself. She tells me that she has feelings for me and some for him. I'm starting to wonder if she's ever going to leave him. I want to be with her more than anything, but I can't take this stress any more. Should I give her some space? Should I leave entirely? Should I make a decisive move (kiss her/punch him)? Just to clarify: This story makes her sound like jailbait, but she's really not. What can I do? Please, please help...