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Edited by syphys:
4/11/2013 1:20:19 AM
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Am I the only one who finds this quite annoying about girls / my girlfriend?
You know how there are T.V shows like Suits? Lost? Vampire Diaries? Grey's Anatomy? and then movies like Twighlight? Okay so my girlfriend makes me watch those shows with her, and every time one of the guys in the shows does something really epic or says something 'cute' or does something she likes, if the guy does it a few times, she starts fantasizing about him and being like 'omg I LOVE this guy <3', 'this guy is THE BEST <3' and then if the guy kisses a girl she doesn't like she will be like 'WHAT, omg ME AND HIM ARE NO MORE </3' and like 'NO WAY he did that </3 omg' and if she see's a pic with a girl standing beside the actual actor she will be like 'OMG this girl is SO lucky! I'm gunna go hug the girl just cuz she got to hug him. Ugh she's so lucky, if I ever got to see that guy, oh man'.. and then on tumblr and what not, she puts of pictures of those guys with a photoshop text saying 'his lips are perfect' and saying how the guy is sexy, am I the only one who finds that annoying?
I find this to be a huge turn off and to the point that I think I don't even like this girl anymore and I am starting to fantasize about meeting a 'perfect girl' who doesn't fantasize about other guys. Am I the only one who is like this? Am I the only one who knows girls like these or are the majority of the girls you guys know similar to what I described? Is it okay for me to get turned off by this and start fantasizing about meeting another 'perfect girl' who doesn't fantasize about other guys? Or is it something I should get over? And is it something which every girl just does?
And last question, when we are watching those types of shows together, we just say 'okay click play now' and then talk on skype while watching, how am I supposed to reply when my girlfriend says things like 'omg I LOVE this guy <3' and stuff like 'OMG what ME AND HIM are no more </3' cuz I find it super awkward and dont know how to reply.
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An internet girlfriend?
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Sound to me like so isn't into u.
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Posts picture of your girlfriend, need some "verification" OP.
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2 RepliesEdited by Magical Robot: 4/11/2013 2:54:22 PMMy buddy's girl friend is paranoid and controlling.... It bothers me greatly that he wants to be with that, but out of respect for him I don't invade on her parade.
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Yeah last time I was with your girlfriend she was pretty annoying.
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2 RepliesSo you dont have any celeb crushes? Who cares if she does that
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The best solution to this is to tell your right hand to shut the -blam!- up!
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Jealousy is an evil thing. If having a girl like this irritates you, find another girl. You're still young. There is no such thing as the 'perfect' girl or guy. You either find one that 'fits' with you, and you 'fit' with them, or you keep looking. Otherwise you will drive each other away over stupid things like this.
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Edited by A Good Troll: 4/11/2013 3:01:54 PM[b]Five Steps to OP's Happiness[/b] 1. Dump the girl 2. Find a girl that is bi 3. Fantasize about women together 4. Find another girl that is bi 5. Stick it in two poopers instead of one
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Best way to fix it: run up behind her when she isn't expecting it and stick it in her pooper
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Seems like you two need to have a talk. It's making you uncomfortable and that's pretty justified if she's doing it so much.
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I don't date children so that doesn't happen to me. If your GF is over the age of 14, as I could understand that sort of behaviour from someone so young, you might want to dump her as she sounds really annoying.
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Adult women > teens
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that does seem obnoxious, though expecting her not to fantasize at all about other men is selfish. I bet you fantasize about other women all the time. She could certainly be more subtle about it though.
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You two wouldn't happen to be adolescents now would you?
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2 RepliesMy girlfriend is good for that. She doesn't do any of that shit.
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5 RepliesLol, you have a shitty gf. You know if you did that to her, she'd get jealous. I'd say something to her about it.
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4 RepliesDo the same thing. Everytime you see a girl on tv say you want to hug her or that she's awesome.
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Bitches be bitches.
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3 Replies[quote]Am I the only one who is like this?[/quote] Probably not. [quote]Am I the only one who knows girls like these or are the majority of the girls you guys know similar to what I described?[/quote] The majority of people I now know are 20+ so no. However there are a few lacking a bit of maturely and whenever they become single, they'll latch on to a certain male celebrity who they believe would treat them right. Then they find another crush or guy, and they quickly get over it. [quote]Is it okay for me to get turned off by this and start fantasizing about meeting another 'perfect girl' who doesn't fantasize about other guys?[/quote] Meh. Everybody got that one celebrity they got the hots for. Some people just show it more than others. [quote]Or is it something I should get over?[/quote] If you really like her, yes. It's not like she is or ever will cheat on you with this guy. We all get crushes, whether we are with someone else or not. It's inevitable. At least she feels comfortable around you enough to express her feelings and her interests. If it really bugs you that much, just speak about it to her. I would assume she has no idea how much it's really bugging you, so it really isn't her fault. Just tell her you don't like hearing her talk about another guy in such a manner. [quote]And is it something which every girl just does?[/quote] lol no.
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3 RepliesYou've got a few courses here the way I see it. 1. You can call her on it and tell her to stop. You look insecure in doing this, though. Understand that once you call her out you're kind of crossing the Rubicon: this thing just got serious. 2. You can harass her about it cleverly to the point where she stops. I recommend some sparse [url=http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2009/08/13/relationship-game-week-agree-and-amplify/]Agree and Amplify[/url] mixed with assorted other tactics. 3. You can ignore it and continue to seethe. That way lies madness and humiliation. 4. You can start doing this with girls on the show you're watching. Depending on how sharp she is, she might pick up on it. Thing is, you feel stupid doing this. Only try with extreme confidence. Remember to not gush over the women, just comment on how you'd plow that if it showed up on your lawn at 2AM naked, or demand that you rewind ten seconds to see that butt shot again. I can't say I know the answer. Just some ideas up there. Best of luck. P.S. Watch some of [i]your[/i] shows with her, too, if you're not already doing that.
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2 Replies[quote]I find this to be a huge turn off and to the point that I think I don't even like this girl anymore and I am starting to fantasize about meeting a 'perfect girl' who doesn't fantasize about other guys.[/quote] You, sir, are going full retard.
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5 RepliesIs your girlfriend 14? Every girl does stuff like that (like talk about how celebrities are hot and how theyd marry them/bone them), but obsessing over it like your girlfriend does sounds like something a young teen would do. Either she's still a child, or has to work out some issues with her ideas of real men.
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5 RepliesEdited by CAMMCAM: 4/11/2013 1:36:49 AMOh to be young again. I think you both are making it out to be something it's not or shouldn't be. She's obsessive and you're possessive, in a sense. If you don't like it or her, tell her and dump her.
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Yeah that really annoys me about your girlfriend.
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3 RepliesBro, what you are feeling is not wrong at all. It is completely inappropriate for your girl to be openly infatuated with someone like this. I mean for crying out loud, she's supposed to love you with everything she has, not fantasizing about another man in front of you like that. You need to tell her that it's bothering you. Any man in his right mind would feel like you. It's not being possessive at all. Your concern is completely legitimate and founded. How would she like it if you just start saying things like "oh man, I so WISH that I could hug THAT girl. What I would do to her." That's basically what she's saying to you. She's being selfish and inconsiderate. You need to tell her how she's making you feel immediately.
