[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] jaythenerdkid Just a little something I was thinking about recently. I've noticed that a lot of girls I know who are particularly, let's say, [i]out there[/i] find that guys can be pretty hostile towards them, and that people who know them well tell them they're "intimidating". To me, this is so bizarre. I love confident women the same way that I love confident men. An average-looking girl who's comfortable in her skin is more attractive to me than a girl who's better-looking but won't meet your eye or start a conversation. Am I alone on this one? (Do girls just see it differently?) Is confidence in women really so off-putting?[/quote]I won't meet the eyes of most people I talk to because I was sort of abused as a child and its pretty hard wired into my brain. Am I just not confident.. or maybe I suffered and still suffer from problems. [Edited on 10.06.2012 11:19 PM PDT]