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12/12/2012 7:18:32 AM
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Girls...

So Flood, I've been friends with this girl for the past several months -that is, since school began- and we've hung out, talked a lot, and I had liked her for sometime-though no longer. Anyways, her and several other girls have told me I'm awesome, have told me I'm a sweet guy, and that some girl's is going to be swept off her feet by me one day. Yet, what I don't understand is why wouldn't one of those girls want to date a guy like me if I am what they say I am? I certainly don't mean to make this some sort of gosh @#!*% pity party, but, I guess I wonder why girls say these things, but they don't seem to see that a guy like me is datable. Why even say it in the first place? Any thoughts Flood? I'm kind of at a loss. [Edited on 12.12.2012 12:46 AM PST]
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  • Because not all women are the same and look for the same things in a guy. You're barking up the wrong tree with these girls. Just because a girlfriend of mine may fall head over heels for someone, that doesn't mean I'm going to follow. Get it through your head that she's not that into you for whatever reason and you really shouldn't fret over why unless she makes a point of telling you about a major personality flaw you have. Your "I'm nicer than most guys I know" generalization holds no merit with me. So let's drop that now because you can't sell yourself as a good person to be in a relationship by comparing yourself to someone that you find to be undesirable. You're looking for a very particular answer, sweetie. You want people to tell you that it's not your fault that the girl who catches your eye isn't into you. [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Doctor Jensen [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] cortana 5[/quote]Sigh. what I meant, but I misworded: If those girls think I'm awesome, why is it that other girls don't see it? Perhaps I'm not that extroverted, but I talk to girls, I try to be fun. Guess I simply am not. Also, I am not insinuating that having manners means girls should date me. But when I am way more respectful or more nice than other guys by a long shot, you'd think it'd speak to girls about the kind of guy I am. I don't care about the recommendation part. That was a misunderstanding. Also, not in this for sex. Not at all.[/quote] [Edited on 12.12.2012 12:31 AM PST]

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