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12/12/2012 7:18:32 AM
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Girls...
So Flood, I've been friends with this girl for the past several months -that is, since school began- and we've hung out, talked a lot, and I had liked her for sometime-though no longer. Anyways, her and several other girls have told me I'm awesome, have told me I'm a sweet guy, and that some girl's is going to be swept off her feet by me one day.
Yet, what I don't understand is why wouldn't one of those girls want to date a guy like me if I am what they say I am? I certainly don't mean to make this some sort of gosh @#!*% pity party, but, I guess I wonder why girls say these things, but they don't seem to see that a guy like me is datable. Why even say it in the first place?
Any thoughts Flood? I'm kind of at a loss.
[Edited on 12.12.2012 12:46 AM PST]
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OP, it's really simple. Instead of contemplating if these ladies like you in a boyfriend type way, make a move. Be flirtatious. You're thinking this predicament to death, instead of acting upon it. No, it's not bad to ask for advice, but keep the advice you're given in mind. If you ask them out, try not to make it seem you're forcing an ultimatum. Asking them out could probably end the friendship you're in now. So the best approach is to flirt. See how they respond. But don't be a weird pedobear. Be casual, smooth. Care free. There will be more girls.
