[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] xl OC Girl lx [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Marinade [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] xl OC Girl lx Just going from experience here, when a guy texts me too much, is ALWAYS available to hang out, I think he's either a stalker or has no life. Girls like a little mystery, a guy who has his own life, and knows how to tease her. Looks help a lot too. [/quote] From the opposite side I've had girls that text me a lot. It just gets annoying after a while. Makes them seem way to desperate. I imagine a similar thing happens the other way around. I've had a girl ask me to do something, but I already had plans. So all I said was, "I've already got plans. How about we do that - I think it was 2 days later - instead. I'm not doing anything then." She was quite happy to oblige that request. From my experience most women will not be upset with you if you tell her you have plans and aren't going to blow them off to do whatever she wants. Provide you suggest a time that you will do it. If you just blow them off, yeah you'll look like an ass.[/quote] I think people just want what they can't have... Or want something more if they have to work for it. I like when a guy can go out with his friends and not invite me sometimes. Now, if I'm never invited, that's a whole different story haha[/quote] Yeah that is true. I have one thing I do that is a little dickish and I know it is. I'll go up to a group of girls at a bar where there are one or two that are decidedly more attractive than the rest, and ignore them. Talk to and be a little flirty with one of the 'less attractive' girls in the group. Almost every time I've done this. One of the more attractive ones gets really jealous that her less attractive friend is getting the attention and ends up trying to get me to pick her up instead. It's rather funny. Oh and one last thing I just thought of. The main reason that I see guys get 'friendzoned' is because they give the girl no indication, what-so-ever, that they are interested in more than that. Just being nice to them isn't enough, that's what their friends do. If you don't flirt with them, or just straight up tell them you're interested, they aren't going to think you are. They feel it would be a waste of their time to try anything more and you'll just be seen as a friend. So if you want to be more than friends, grow a pair and let her know.